Long-distance relationship problem

2021.09.19 16:33 Fun_Economics7968 Long-distance relationship problem

Hello! Sorry in advance for a very poorly written story and unnecessary amount of detail.
I [19] met this girl [19] and at the very back of my mind, I always knew that I could potentially be interested in girls but never had to chance to explore that side because I had been in a relationship for as long as I could remember! We met through the internet and I couldn’t believe how crazy into her I was. It was so different than my feelings for my previous boyfriend, because this time I was genuinely SUPER DUPER into this girl. I feel like with my ex, we were both kids who didn’t really know what ‘liking’ someone was really all about.
And the good thing is, she was also just as equally into me as I was! And attracted. And so was I. I figured it’d be so difficult for me to be attracted to her since I’ve never liked a girl before, but oh it was so easy. She is the only person I genuinely think about and am attracted to. We’ve been texting, calling etc for a few months now and everything was absolutely great.
A month ago, I felt something suddenly switch, where she’d flirt with me less and just overall seemed less and less interested in chatting to me. Didn’t wanna call as often, just totally pushed me away. So I ask her what’s up, and she tells me how she’s going through something personal right now and that it’s nothing to do with me and that it’s all just really getting to her. So she asked me to be a little bit patient with her, which of course I said okay to! Priority is always to make sure she feels good before anything.
However, and I know how selfish this sounds, I found myself crying every day. And I mean everyyyy day. Even though she gave me a good explanation, I can’t help but take it personally. I just feel so unwanted and pushed away, and even trying to flirt or talk or start a conversation makes me feel so desperate and as if I’m trying too hard, or forcing her to talk to me. Because even when I do try, I don’t get much in return. And I’m aware this absolutely terrible of me and very inconsiderate and selfish but, I can’t help it. I suppose the fact that I’m also a very insecure person adds to it. And how extremely over the top loving we were just a month ago, it was a big switch. Sometimes I can’t help but get into the topic and it ends up with me (unfortunately) moaning to her about how I just want to feel some effort from her side too because it all feels so one-sided and sad right now. She tells me how horrible she feels every time I talk about it, and how it’s not like she’s acting this way intentionally. And how she misses how we were too. And obviously, she’s right. She has every right to get mad at me for bugging her about it.
But I really am so lost right now, because it’s so exhausting feeling unwanted every day and crying and trying to make things work while at the same time, not being able to talk to her about this issue, knowing that it’d make her very very upset because I’m being selfish.
I absolutely love this girl and I don’t want to leave but at the same time, I don’t know how to approach this problem or how to handle it. If anyone has any experience, or advice, I’d love to hear it. Thanks.
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Title: A few questions about book publishing
Okay, I understand not all of these questions are regarding self-publishing, which is what this subreddit is about. But this is the only subreddit I could find regarding the topic of book publishing. Plus since it's a medium sized subreddit (not too small, not too popular), my post is more likely to get views and attention here.
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2) If I were to manually print out copies of my book (but it looks professional with a hardback cover and everything), how would I hypothetically get my self-published book inside book stores? Let's say I had 1,000 copies for a children's book I wrote. I can go on the streets or in front of a walmart to sell them to parents walking buy (girl scout cookies style). But eventually, I'd want it to be in a bookstore too, for reach but also because it just looks more professional. How would I go about this?
3) Self publishing websites like IngramSpark, how do they distribute your books? I'm pretty sure book stores have to buy the books that they want in their stores manually. They are more likely to do that with a well known book that drives profit, versus a small nobody. You'd be a liability more than an asset. Are these companies a scam or do they really pull strings for all of their customers?
4) Copyright, yikes... Here in america when you make a creation (like a video game, or a piece of art), the rights belong to you. But should I be concerned about this when talking about books? I mean somebody could just take your book and sell it, is that legal? Is there a way to protect my copyright? Especially since if you're self publishing, nobody knows who you are, and you're giving your creations away so it's not hard.
5) Publishing books sounds expensive.. Just out of curiosity, is there any loophole or publisher that is known for publishing for free? Is it worth it? Or is it where they own all copyright and get paid 100% for doing the work.
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